
Finding New Hope In Our Schools—After
September 11
Reflections from New York
Marlene Lund, Director,
Lutheran Schools Association
“When my daughter brought home
the angel teddy bear and my wife told me the story I was
overcome with emotion. When I moved into my new office the first
item I placed was the teddy bear and of course pictures of my
family.” (Excerpt from a thank you note received from a father
who escaped from the 55th floor of Tower One of the
World Trade Center on September 11th).
“Flight 587 is a flight that I
do at least 10-15 X a month and I consider myself BLESSED that
on 09/11/01 I was called to another flight.” (Excerpt from a
letter received by a mother who was assisted by the scholarship
fund)
“When I received the cards and
quilt and knew that children were praying for us, I just broke
down and cried.” (Excerpt from a thank you note received from
a mom who lost her husband on September 11th)
These are just three examples of
how the generosity and support of Lutheran schools and churches
around the country have touched the lives of children and
families in New York.
As I sit down to write this
article it is now 4 ½ months since the attack on the World
Trade Center. New York is getting back to what the experts call
a “new normal”. Soldiers still patrol our major attractions
and transportation terminals. Police cars monitor the entrances
to our bridges and tunnels and fighter jets patrol our skies.
There has been a gradual easing of some of the tensions, but
things will never be the same. When I look out my office window
I still get a lump in my throat at the big empty space in the
skyline.
Through the generosity of the
Lutheran Disaster Response and individual schools the LSA has
been able to provide so many needed services to assist families,
children and educators regain some joy and normalcy. With the
help of Ann Eissfeldt and Rick Armstrong from God’s Care in
Times of Crisis, many of our staffs and many children have been
able to process their grief and confusion over the events of
September 11th. In March and April all schools and
early childhood centers will have the opportunity to participate
in crisis training and to form crisis plans. Children and
families in need of counseling have received it and will
continue to receive it. Much joy has been brought to individual
children with the receipt of stuffed toys, quilts, toys and
letters of cheer and support.
Teachers and administrators have
been holding the line of support with a smile on their faces and
a dedication to their children which is awe inspiring. Many
teachers from around the country eased the burdens of their New
York colleagues by sending messages of support, gifts and offers
of respite. LDR has provided funds for much needed respite for
those most seriously affected.
Parents who have lost a spouse or
who have lost their jobs due to the events of September 11th
have been assisted with scholarship funds, thus enabling
children who need the consistency of a stable, caring and
Christian environment have it maintained.
Although, the initial shock wave
is over, the long term healing continues. Two weeks ago I
received a call from an administrator who asked for help.
Several of the younger elementary students were exhibiting
abnormally aggressive behavior, bedwetting, and nightmares. We
were able to send in counselors to assist.
An adolescent child who lost his
mom has begun to show signs of severe depression, lethargy and
truancy. The school continues to work with the father, himself
barely functioning, to intervene. On a recent visit to one of
our preschools, a four-year-old who lost her daddy came to me
and said, “You know my daddy is dead, but he’s with Jesus.”
What a testament to the marvelous witness and support our
schools are providing.
The stories I have heard and
continue to hear are heart breaking, inspirational and all too
numerous. On behalf of all of your colleagues in New York and
New Jersey I continue to thank all of you for your wonderful
support. You can’t imagine how much your actions have meant to
all of us. I see the face of God in each of you.
As we continue to cope with
whatever lies ahead we ask for your continued prayers. We are
stunned, but sure in the knowledge of God’s never failing
love. May we all pray for a renewed time of peace in the days
ahead.
Marlene Lund serves as Director
of Lutheran School Association in New York, NY, and may be
reached at marlenelund@mindspring.com.
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